GIRLFRIEND PROBLEM please help its long but 10 points for detailed opinion/answer/advice im desperate.?

personally i have the same problem with the whole showing affection thing... some people show it differently. I'm with a guy currently who likes to be all over me and i have asked him to slow it down a bit... mind you we have been together about 2 and a half years now and have a baby. she could be hurt. with my parents divorced i feel scared to love again because your just going to lose it all over again.... its hard when your parents are supposed to be your biggest role model and it that breaks down in flames you feel more self conscious about who you let in even if you have known that person since you were born. i feel that you should maybe let her know that you are there and when she is ready to talk your not going to get mad or leave. sometimes girls get a little scared that guys will leave right when they feel safe, just be sure you show your feelings and hopefully soon she will return the favor. if she does decide to break it off then stay a close friend you never know she could come back and notice her mistake... this all takes some time.